Transition

Hello to All

This is Bruce’s wife Lita writing. It is with a heavy heart that I write what may be the final post on this Blog. In May Bruce began to lose the ability to swallow, and shortly there after the ability to be understood. His face had begun fasiculating, and the light began to go from him. He had given in to the disease that was rapidly taking everything from him. We has hoped that ALS would leave his face, throat and tongue alone, but it wasn’t to be. He indicated to me on June 8 that he wanted to talk to the kids and close family about the situation and the choice he had made. I was able to get everyone together on Fathers Day. He made his wish to transition known publicly at this point. I had known for some time but did not want to say anything until the 3 kids knew. I promised to do exactly as he asked. On June 20, 2014, Bruce made the crossing at my hands under the guidance of Hospice, as I took him off life support which he had been on since last August. He was comfortable and looking in my eyes as I massaged his face and head. He passed with dignity, clarity and as he wished. We  spent many hours talking and sharing memories in the 14 months prior to this time. We were best friends, co-workers, partners, lovers, husband and wife, parents and buddies. We always will be.

Thank you to everyone for their prayers, love and support during this difficult time. Bruce was a great husband, father, son, brother, friend, mentor and teacher. He will be missed by all.

Bee Awesome, he is!

Vanilla Puddin’

I’m still here. We’ve been dealing with a case of respiratory infection for about ten days. I ‘ve been on antibiotics for four days. It’s like laying on the bottom of the pool breathin’ through a garden hose with someone pourin’ vanilla puddin’ in the other end. Lita’s trying to keep me vaccumed out, and is doin  a damn good job. Of course the antibiotics are screwing with digestion. Crappy situation if you know what I mean. Lita is a saint!

Bee Awesome

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